Thoughts of love are everywhere. In fact, Starbucks tells me that if I collect enough stamps, they will “show me love” by giving me a free drink. The Beatles sing about love being “all you need”. In every language, in every culture, love is the most sung about, written about, gossiped about, cried about, therapied about subject there is. When it's good, it's really good. But when i'ts not, it can really destroy. This sermon looks at the secret ingredient to establishing long, consistent, loving relationships.